Family of Four Taking Flight to Financial Independence

FI With Kids: Fun Friday Food

Food is always a big topic in the FI (financial independence) community as we mentioned in our blog last week (How To Feed A Family Of Four On $75 Per Week).

One topic that does come up in FI social media groups is ... lunchHow do you save on lunch (adults and kids)?  What do you pack for lunch?  How much do you spend on buying lunch?  And so on ...

So today I bring you ...

Fun Friday Food

Our daughter's Back to School lunch from last year.  Also featured in the photo - reusable bag (found on Amazon - Bumkins).

When our son entered Kindergarten (he's now in 3rd Grade) I started doing Fun Friday Lunch Art for him.  And now that both of our kids are in elementary school, I do Fun Friday Lunch Art for both of them each week.  It is an easy goal to stick with - entertaining for the kids, and nearly free (with the exception of art supplies, but of course most of us have those around the house).  (Side Note: I am an art teacher.  You can read more about how we live on a teacher's salary (and save the higher salary) here).















Not feeling artsy?  Of course you can write simple notes or jokes (my kids love when I incorporate jokes!).

But what about the food?  Most of the food comes from our regular grocery budget - How To Feed A Family Of Four On $75 Per Week.  If I buy anything special, it would come from our extra spending budget.

Today I am not going to talk to you about their normal lunches, but I am going to talk to you about their special "holiday" lunches.

On special holidays (or near special holidays), I sometimes try to surprise them with an extra fun lunch (maybe Back to School, Halloween, Dia de los Muertos, Christmas, Valentine's, and Easter (Easter is fun because I put ALL of their food in eggs!)).  It really doesn't take that much more effort than their normal school lunch, and the cost is minimal and would come from our extra spending budget (I could definitely do it for $10 or less for two kids if I wanted to).

For example ... it might look like:

Back to School Lunch


Christmas Lunch - Our Son


Christmas Lunch - Our Daughter

Valentine's Day Lunch - Our Daughter

Valentine's Day Cookie - My Sweet Obsession Cookies (Support local vendors and artists!)

Valentine's Day Lunch - Our Son


-Instead of using their normal Bento Box in their lunch kit for special holiday lunches, I would remove that to allow for more room.  (I bought their Bento Boxes from Pottery Barn Kids their Kindergarten year.  They have lasted since then (now 3rd Grade and 1st Grade).  Their lunch boxes are also from Pottery Barn Kids which last 2 years or more.)

-I sometimes replace the Bento Box with crinkle paper (paper not plastic) that goes along with the holiday.  I've found this at the Dollar Store.  I like to avoid the Dollar Store as much as possible, but some things are okay like paper products.  At Christmas, I've put in "snow."  You can find fake fluffy snow at craft stores.  It's cheap, and the kids love it.

-I've found holiday baggies at Target to use to hold some food items.

-Sometimes I find little trinkets to go along with the holiday (like spiders at Halloween).  I often find these at Target.

-Food?  I usually use the food they normally eat for lunch, but then I might buy one or two extra treats they don't get (this would come from extra spending).  And I sometimes do extra special treats like the one featured in the Valentine's Day lunches above.  I've used a local cookie artist / vendor a few times for holidays and gifts.  Her cookies (My Sweet Obsession Cookies) are adorable, tasty, and affordable, and I prefer to support local artists / artists in general versus big box stores (when possible).

-Other ideas?  Cookie cutter shapes go a long way!

I've thought about doing my own Etsy shop or something similar selling personalized lunch art ... and maybe even pre-packed holiday lunch items (not food items), but that is not something I have time for right now.  Maybe in early retirement as a side gig?

So there you have it ... what do you pack for lunch?  Do you ...or would you consider packing notes / art .. or going above and beyond at the holidays?  What other ideas do you have for lunches?

-Tara


How To Feed A Family Of Four On $75 Per Week


Before we get to our food post, I am going to provide a quick summary on FIRE (Financial Independence Retire Early).  As we get closer to FIRE, I've had some people ask me ... well, what about work?  What about a job?  (You can also see our recent post here on the What Abouts).  

1) FIRE stands for Financial Independence Retire Early: Once you reach financial independence you are able to retire early if you choose to do so (of course you do not have to stop working!).
2) We plan to stop working full-time, but that does NOT mean we will probably never work (make money) in some way ever again.
3) We plan to try to get Non-Lucrative Visas (NLV), and move to Spain for at least a school year (or more).  If we are able to obtain Non-Lucrative Visas, this means we can't work / take a job from a Spaniard.  But a NLV would allow us to stay for up to a year in Spain (versus an American Passport would only let us stay for 90 days).
4)  How do you achieve FIRE?  Short answer ...

Pay off all of your debt!
Budget, and decrease your spending rate (and increase your savings rate!).
Invest, invest, invest.
Figure out your FI (financial independence) number.
Be prepared, and have back up plans (your safety margins).
Reach your FI number!  Now you can live off your investments (4% or less), and there are other ways you can pull from your retirement early (here and here).
Enjoy FIRE.  Done!

-Tara

How To Feed A Family Of Four On $75 Per Week


The hummus wraps and salad are mentioned below.

One of the numbers that seems to jump out to people when they read our blog and look at our budget is the amount we spend on groceries.  (It is also a fairly common topic amongst the FIRE (financial independence retire early) community).  We try to keep this between $70 - $75 per week or about $300 per month.  What?!  Yep, you heard that correctly.  This includes our food, toiletries, cleaning supplies (hello, baking soda and vinegar!), etc.  

Today we wanted to give you an inside look at what a typical week looks like for us.  

We will also include the meals that we plan to cook (because planning your meals ahead of time is key to sticking with your budget (and a time saver)) AND some of the recipes we use.  (At this point I don’t really use recipes, and I certainly never measure seasonings.  The cooking is more based on feel.  The below recipe ideas are almost impossible to mess up -- really quick and easy to make and adjust to your own tastes).

As of right now, we mainly shop at HEB and Aldi (of course prices vary depending on the market you are in and where you shop).  Both of these places are pretty popular amongst the FI community / local FI community.  Where do you shop?  We've also shopped at Sprouts (which is like a smaller version of Whole Foods) when they've had sales.  And if we lived closer to Trader Joe's (there are some in Houston, but we are in the burbs), we would probably frequent there too (we even noticed when we have visited NYC the prices at Trader Joe's are similar to the prices in Houston which was surprising!).

Note, any eating out (meals, even grabbing ice cream, or Starbucks, etc.) comes from our extra spending budget not our grocery budget.  And I am guessing we "eat out" less than a typical American family because that has not been a priority for us.  It also helps that any eating out is usually because it is a treat not because we weren't prepared / or in a pinch.

The Grocery List





The sample lists above were actual lists we used within the last month.

As you can see we try to shop the sales for our fruits as much as possible.  Another thing to note is that I have my list written according to the store layout.  We start in the produce section.  Then we hit the condiments (Peanut Butter, Salsa, etc.) ... next up, rice, beans, etc.  This helps me stick to my list and gets us in and out of the grocery store as quickly as possible (the less time you’re wandering around in there, the less likely you are to spend on unnecessary items).  

Speaking of the list, it is in my hand EVERY time I am in the store.  It includes obviously the items I am going to buy but also each item's price (an estimate) so that I have a good idea of how much I’m spending before I check out.  My son and I sometimes play a game where I tell him how much the bill is going to be (give or take $1), and my estimate is always right (this blows his mind!)  My list also contains the meals I have planned to cook for the week (which helps me make sure that I’m not forgetting any ingredients).  (Sample of that below).




The Meals


This exact meal isn't mentioned in this post, but basically it is baked tofu, kale, rice, and white sauce / hot sauce!  Yum!

I’m guessing most people who cook at home have some “go to” meals that they make most weeks that are quick / easy, and that everyone in the family likes (depending on the day or mood if you have a 6 and 8 year old).  These are just some of our “go to” meals.  Note, they are all plant-based.  What are your "go to" meals?

Pasta with Garlic & Walnut Sauce and Spinach Salad with Sliced Apple and Garlic & Walnut Sauce

To make the garlic & walnut sauce - blend about 1 cup of walnuts with as much or as little fresh garlic as you want (I usually use 4 - 5 pieces) and ½ - 1 cup of water (depending on the consistency you want the sauce to be).  This stuff is good on just about anything, but we like it over rice, pasta, homemade tortilla chips, and steamed kale.

Burrito Bowl

This is one of the wife’s favorites, and it's also good for kids because they can come and build their own bowl (think Chipotle at home).  For this I usually make a big batch of rice.  Then just set out bowls of beans, garlic sauce (same as above), corn, cilantro, sautéed onion, salsa, hot sauce, homemade tortilla chips, etc.

To make the homemade tortilla chips, preheat oven to 400.  Put some parchment paper on a baking sheets, and cut tortillas into chips or strips ( you can use corn or flour tortillas).  Bake for about 10 minutes.  (Start watching them around 8 or so.)
  
Breakfast Scramble

Onion, garlic, frozen hashbrowns, spinach, leftover beans, and leftover corn in a non-stick skillet.  Top with hot sauce, cilantro, or salsa.  Done!

Hummus Wrap

Fill a tortilla with homemade hummus, sliced cucumber, sautéed onion / garlic, diced tomatoes, spinach, cilantro, beans, etc.

To make the homemade hummus, simply blend 1 - 2 cups of cooked chickpeas with fresh garlic (again I use 4 - 5 pieces), a couple squirts of mustard, lemon juice, and about a ½ cup of water (alter depending on the consistency you want for your hummus). 

“Nachos”

Make tortilla chips (as mentioned above).  Put some homemade hummus in the middle of the plate, and lay chips around hummus.  Then cover chips with the garlic sauce, cilantro, salsa, hot sauce, beans, onion, jalapeno, spinach, etc.

Big Pot of Beans / Rice

What plant-based menu is complete without a recipe for a BIG OL’ POT of rice and beans (plus we are Texans ... we love rice and beans)!?  This is one of my personal favorites, and I typically eat a variation of it at dinner every night.  This is a great meal for leftovers, and it is good to eat by itself (or you can use it as filling to make tacos with).  

Saute onion / garlic in non-stick skillet.  Next add 4 cups of vegetable broth, 1 - 2 cups of water, 1 cup uncooked rice, 3 cups of cooked beans OR lentils, and seasonings of choice (my favorites are smoked paprika, onion powder, and garlic powder).  Bring everything to a boil, and then simmer on medium / low until rice is cooked (and most of the liquid has been absorbed).  

There you have it!  This is just one example of our grocery list / meals in a week.  

What do you think?  How much do you spend on groceries?  What kind of food do you cook?  Do you shop with a grocery list, and plan your meals ahead of time? 

-Erik



FI With Kids: The Arts and Ice Cream (Free!)

We've said it before ... there are ways to cut the costs even with kids.  Yes, you can achieve FI even with kids!  For example ... FI With Kids: Family Memberships (Bonus: Travel Gear!) and FI With Kids: Easy Color Theory Science Experiment.

So how do you keep costs down with kids?  What types of free activities do you enjoy with your family?  Or even free activities for adults?

We live in the Houston area so there is really no shortage of free activities all the time.  We recently participated in two.

Last week we attended the TC Energy's annual Theater District Open House, and this weekend we attended a local small town Labor Day Ice Cream Social in Friendswood.

Labor Day Ice Cream Social

Theater District Open House

The Theater District Open House happens annually in August each year.  Unless you count driving / gas, we spent $0 (same with our Labor Day Ice Cream Social mentioned below!).  I've been once before years ago, but we decided to go with the kids this year.  And I am glad we did!  It is a great opportunity to get a small taste of the performing arts scene (for free!).  They also had unique opportunities (besides performances) such as arts & crafts for the kids, behind the scenes opportunities (checking out wigs), and hands-on participation like drum circles.  We spent a few hours there, and we didn't even get around to everything.

Another bonus?  We didn't have to pay for parking.  Parking in Downtown Houston can be a pain for large events, but they offered complimentary parking in nearby parking garages / lots.

We also lucked out because the weather wasn't great driving in (rain storm) so I am guessing less people attended - therefore we didn't have to deal with ridiculous crowds.

For those that wanted to spend money ... there were some food trucks (we enjoyed the complimentary Saint Arnold's Root Beer).  And for those that did better about planning ahead, you could find deals on performing arts tickets and season passes (I should have thought about this prior because there are a few things that I am interested in attending, but we also were looking to stay within our August extra spending budget).










I would definitely recommend this event to others!

Friendswood's Labor Day Ice Cream Social

Last year we attended the local Labor Day Ice Cream Social (it was a great little free event) so we decided to go again this year.




Free Blue Bell (best ice cream in Texas)?  Yes, please.   Say no more.  (They had vanilla, chocolate, strawberry, mint chocolate chip, and even root beer floats).

They also had other ice cream cookies and treats, water and lemonade, a live band, and outdoor family / kids activities / toys.

They hosted it at the small local historic Perry House Museum (early 1900s).







What activities have you enjoyed lately that were free?

-Tara